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The foster care alternative

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The foster care  alternative

For Our Children’s director Ivanka Shalapatova


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Bulgaria’s problems with children who are abandoned or deprived of parental care are no secret and have been well publicised by foreign media. Most debate, however, has focused on living conditions in children’s institutions and the health of youngsters residing there. Attention has centred on children’s chances of adoption with little said about foster care. For most Bulgarians the term foster parents sounds like a movie feature and means little.

This does not mean, however, that foster parenting is absent in Bulgaria or that people are not working in social welfare trying to make it a desirable alternative to placing children in institutions.

The leader in this is the For Our Children NGO which, on October 23-25, gathered more than 100 foster families from all over Bulgaria in Plovdiv at the third annual national foster care meeting to discuss problems confronting the sector.

The beginning
"It’s no secret that in 1998 our organisation introduced the start of this new but effective alternative to life in institutions known as foster care," Ivanka Shalapatova, director of the For Our Children (FOC) NGO told The Sofia Echo. "In just a few years we managed to achieve the impossible by placing children in the first eight foster families in Bulgaria," she said.

A decade on, foster parenting has taken off and the legal framework is now in place, if not, sadly, with the required speed. According to Shalapatova only about 200 children currently live in foster families.

Additionally, many foster parents formally approved by the state have not been given custody of children. "Historically, Bulgarians are used to taking care of children who are not their own, especially during wars and in times of social crisis," Shalapatova said.

"Today, however, foster parenting has a big ‘competitor’ in the form of children’s homes. Despite the passing years nothing can eradicate the communist approach towards children living in endangered circumstances," she said.   

"The belief that social homes are the preferred option for a child to that of a family environment persists. At the same time nearly 7200 children are living in social homes and waiting for ‘parents’."

Another problem faced by NGOs working in adoption is that aspiring foster parents prefer to care for a younger child rather than a teenager who has grown up in an institution.
To change this, both society and institutions have to redouble their efforts. One particular aim is to bolster support received by foster families. "It is important to increase the number of people willing to become foster parents which is not easy," Shalapatova said.

"Many people are unaware of what is involved or the paltry financial support foster parents currently receive from the state as well as the lack of public backing for this to change," she said. "The state pays foster parents between 150 and 250 leva a month for each child depending on his or her age.

To change this, the FOC is working on a joint national financial standard for foster parents so that municipalities and institutions involved in the process can have the right to manage state subsidies allocated for the purpose, including the selection, training and supervision of foster families.

Currently, there are two types of foster parenting in Bulgaria: professional and voluntary. Both categories receive money but while voluntary foster parents get only between 192 and 260 leva, which is supposed to cover a family’s expenses in raising the children, professional foster parents also get a monthly salary of about 250 leva after tax for their work.  
In neighbouring Romania, on the other hand, the only foster parenting is professional.

"In 1997, Romania took a decision at governmental level to close all children’s institutions and train their staff as professional foster parents to take care of between six and 10 children. This was how the change in Romania took place,  according to my information," Shalapatova said. "We believe, however, that this is not the right way to handle the issue of children in state institutions. Foster care development should happen gradually and regularly, not on an ad hoc basis," she said.   

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Anonymous T.M. Fri, Dec 25 2009 14:58 CET

I am really at a loss reading all this and watching documentaries on the subject.

The Berlin Wall fell back in 1989 and along with it Communism. I cannot fathom how a country who has been out of Communist rule for over 20 years and most recently entered the E.U. still can have such an archaic view of children.

Children are not dogs or cats or sheep. They are HUMAN BEINGS...Have you all forgotten that YOU were all children at one point?? It's impossible to be an "adult" without a some point [...]

Read the full comment starting life an infant...then child...then teenager..then a so-called adult.

Why doesn't your government put more value on human life?

Children should only be in institutions under EXTREME conditions like:
-No living relatives
-Parents are incarcerated
-One or both parents are incapable of physically caring for their child

People should NOT be able to "toss" away a child simply because the child become ill or troublesome or whatever their reasoning...and if someone does that there should be legal repercussions for such behavior.

If people want to give up a child for some reason, they should be required to go through counseling first...then if that fails to fix the problems...perhaps go through the courts to get an approval...and then only on temporary basis.

Like if the child is troublesome, if counseling doesn't improve the situation, go through the courts and put the child in a treatment center for 6 months or a year..then re-introduce the child back into his/her family again.

Bulgaria's method seems barbaric to me and yet my understanding is if a foreigner like myself from the USA would want to adopt a Bulgarian child your country would pretty much make it near impossible.

This article says there's 7200 kids in institutions, but I've read only maybe 200 children were allowed to be adopted by American families.

I guess it's much better to keep the children in your country to be abused and neglected than sent to a family (or even a single person) who could give them a life they could only dream about!!!

Anonymous Geraldene Price Wed, Dec 02 2009 15:39 CET

Hi
Being a qualified Foster Carer for the past 15 years, we would be very interested in contacting the persons in the above arcticle to work on constructing their organisation for foster carers and support for them.

If anyone can help please email me on bendavidprice@aol.com

Anonymous JK Tue, Nov 24 2009 21:05 CET

Foster care would make such a positive difference, not only for the child but also the family grows larger and creates more happy memories! Everyone benefits! It works for us. I recommend it to anyone

Anonymous Valeri Mon, Nov 16 2009 19:37 CET

Well, I had castration in mind, but that would work too;)))

Anonymous LGZ Sat, Nov 14 2009 09:11 CET

Yeah? What should be done about that exactly? Do you suggest we put a limit like China for a small section of the population?

Anonymous Valeri Fri, Nov 13 2009 18:44 CET

... and the elephant in the room no one mentions? Gypsy birth rate.
Lets do something about that.


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